French Coffee – A Story

// March 29th, 2011 // No Comments » // BDSM Articles, Featured

Do you know what “French sex” is? Well it is the European euphemism for a blowjob. My name is Nicole and for a while now when I am allowed to drink coffee, it will be “French coffee”.

This is my story. My husband and I run a private business. It is an Internet based operation that we run from our home. It is quite a demanding job, sometimes a bit stressful. And I am – or should I say was – a coffee-addict. A year ago I would drink 12 to 15 cups of coffee a day. Black and strong. No milk, just sugar. That was until the day my husband – who is also my 24/7 master – told me coffee for me would be a no go and that, if I really needed it, it would have to be “French coffee”.

This means drinking coffee now is a very humiliating protocol for me

It goes like this. If a really, really, really want coffee I will first of all have to beg for it. Next, when it suits him, I will have to kneel down and give master a really good blowjob.

And that is not just a “suck and swallow” quickly. No, he wants the works.

I must kiss, lick and suck until he is completely satisfied and ready to cum. If he does I must of course catch the sperm in my mouth, but I am not allowed to swallow it.

Master is a hard man to please and he has taught me well. So this part of the ritual is very likely to take quite some time. Usually something in between 30 minutes and an hour.

Only now master will pour me a cup of coffee. I will next have to empty my mouth in my cup, thus mixing the sperm with the coffee. This I have to do in front of him, still kneeling, so he can enjoy the scene. I can assure you, this is probably the most humiliating part of the process.

I’m sure you get the point by now. What is inside the cup after this is what master has baptized “French coffee”. I have to drink it of course.

This is the only coffee I am allowed to drink. And what is worse, this ritual allows for very clever embarrassment.

For example, whenever we visit others and people offer me coffee I have to say that only drink “French coffee”. When they ask for an explanation I will give them some story about a very special European brand or a very special blending, both of course unavailable in the United States.

And all I can do is hope that there is not another master somewhere who came up with the same idea….

Important Tips For Safe Sex & Safe Play ~ Part I

// February 12th, 2011 // No Comments » // BDSM Articles, Featured

Generally speaking, an erotic power exchange scene is not more dangerous than any other form of sex, provided you take sufficient precautions. Safe sex is a must, and not only from an HIV point of view.

Condoms

Always use a condom when penetrating, either vaginal or anal. Using condoms when having oral sex is generally advised (you can buy mint or menthol flavoured condoms for this purpose).

This may sound silly, but if you have never bought condoms before, please avoid the vending machines in discotheques, bars, etc. The problem is that you never know how old the condoms are when you buy them. A condom with an expired maximum vending date is unsafe to use, because the latex deteriorates over time.

Do use condoms when penetrating with vibrators, dildos or other toys. When in scene, it is very possible your toys will lay about and attract dust and germs. Using condoms on your toys will keep them in a better condition as well and makes them easier to clean afterwards.

Some people have allergic reactions to the lubricant that is standard on most condoms. If you are not sure, buy non-lubricated condoms with a separate, water-based lubricant.

Dental Dams

It’s a must to use dental dams when rimming (licking the outside anal area) and it’s generally advised for oral-vaginal contact. Outside the USA, dental dams are sometimes hard to get. Contact a center for information about sexually transmitted diseases for addresses.

Latex Gloves

Latex gloves will protect your and your partner from all sorts of things. When penetrating either the vagina or anus, wear gloves. Especially when you’re fisting (including vaginal fisting).

Lubricant

Lubricant makes it easier to penetrate, both vaginal and anal. Buy only water-based lubricants. Oil-based lubricants will ruin your condoms and other latex protective gear in seconds (this goes for your valuable latex clothing as well!). Be aware of the fact that massage oil, baby oil and butter will have the same effect on latex.

Some lubricants contain nonoxynol-9. Some people have allergic reactions to this. If you want to be on the safe side, buy a lubricant without it. On the other hand, nonoxynol-9 makes it a lot more difficult for the HIV virus to survive. If you and your partner(s) are not allergic then it’s worth using.

HIV Risks

All the general stuff about HIV infection (direct blood and sperm contact) of course goes for erotic power exchange as well. Take extra precautions when you are whipping and (accidentally) draw blood or when you are into needle play or cutting. Nipple clamps sometimes may cause bleeding of the nipples, women may experience this more while having a period. Intense stimulation of the nipples – clamps, binding and piercing(!!) – may incidentally cause a woman’s nipple to lactate slightly. Even some men will start to produce small amounts of lactate. Lactate may very well contain the HIV virus. 

Extra precautions should, of course, be taken if you are into some edge play situations.

A Journey Inside Wasteland

// January 29th, 2011 // 1 Comment » // Featured

So I’m surfing around Inside Wasteland, a very cool site which lists all the happenings over a Wasteland.Com (A HUGE BDSM Site). It has trailers, interviews, all kinds of BTS stuff and one of my personal favorites, cause I’m a porn loving geek,  a little glimpse at their editing room and an interview with their Directory Of Photography.  Did I ever mention they’ve made a ton of full length feature films….very cool.  Anyway, I came across this trailer that I want to share with you.  It’s so incredibly hot.  It stars Maitresse Madeline and Trisha Uptown, who was Xbiz’s Babe of the Year and this trailer is totally awesome, but hey, don’t believe me, watch for yourself.

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Lesbian Domination

// June 23rd, 2009 // 3 Comments » // Featured

Training a slave is hard work, as much for the Mistress/Master as it is for the slave. It takes a lot of patience, and determination to get a slave or a cuckolded man to obey your commands flawlessly and to understand that everything in their life, including their bodies is completely and utterly in your control.

Mistress Alyssah Simone has trained her little slave Trisha Uptown for many months and the payoff of all that effort is obvious. There are no screams or complaints uttered by Trisha as she is forced to act as a foot stool, or penetrated with dildos shoved in both her mouth and her cunt… or even as she is fucked by her strapon wearing Mistress and given electric shocks. You just have to take one look at the smile on Mistress Alyssah’s face as she gets Trisha to give her strapon dildo a blowjob, to see how very proud she is of her pet! And she has every reason to be proud of Trisha and the progress that they have made together… it is every sub’s dream to be as obedient as Trisha is to her Mistress and as loved as she is by her Mistress.