Glove Cuffs

Glove cuffs are leather gloves in which the hand can be folded and strapped down that way (much like a boxing glove). They are very restrictive, since the fingers cannot do anything anymore and are kept in one position that cannot be changed. That usually leads to quite a bit of frustration.

There are various designs around, make sure you buy a pair that also has good quality wrist cuffs (either intricate or attached), so can do more with your your cuffs than merely secure the fingers.

Backstraps

A backstrap is a collar and a pair of wrist cuffs, interconnected with an adjustable band. Their function is to keep the arms folded on the back, attached to the collar.

The interconnecting band should be adjustable, in order to be able to either bring the arms higher or lower as well as to adjust the whole thing to the slave’s physique.

Backstraps are erotic, rather than functional. They are good for soft, erotic play, but not very functional in sessions that are a little more rough. In fact, they might be dangerous, since moving the arms will have a direct effect on the ability to breath. For erotic BDSM however, they function very well, provided you have managed to find a good design.

When you go out to buy backstraps you need to compromise between softness and sturdiness off the leather used. If the leather is too soft, the whole will deform quickly and becomes an ugly thing that you do not want to use anymore. If however the leather is too thick, it doesn’t fit into the erotic setting it was designed for.

The other thing to watch for is the size of the collar and cuffs. Often, these will be too broad and too wide. If that is the case, better leave it on the shelf. The collar should be somewhat wide, since a thinner collar will soon become painful and actually rather dangerous, since the pressure in on the front of the neck, as soon as the arms are being dropped.

Thighcuffs

Thighcuffs are a classic example of things, that are best left where they were: on the shelf in the shop. They are an invention of the porn industry and they probably look good in pictures, but they don’t work. Due to the cone-shape of the thighs, all they do is fall off. If you want your slave in the position as in the picture, use rope. Leather cuffs simply will not do the trick.

Singlegloves

Singlegloves are a “look before you leap” toy. Their objective is to fully secure the arms on the back. They are great to have, IF your slave can handle this position. Many people simply can’t and if that is the case, buying a singleglove is simply a waste of (quite a bit of) money.

A singleglove is expensive and one of the things to pay a lot of attention to is their fit as well as adjustability. They should have straps that secure the wrists, elbows and upper arms, as well as straps that go over the shoulders to hold the whole thing in place. There should be room enough to get the arms in properly and they should go all the way up to the armpits. Do pay attention to the cone shape, so they will not block arteries in the upper arm.

Off the shelf singlegloves hardly ever fit and most are of rather poor quality. If you want to buy one, it is a much better idea to find a local leather crafter and have one made to measure. That actually will not be more expensive than buying one off the shelf. In fact, it will probably be somewhat cheaper and in any case better.

A singleglove is very restrictive and they have a high erotic charisma. Also, they make the very straining arm position somewhat easier to maintain, since the entire arms are supported by their leather encasing. For a position like this, that is a plus and your slave will probably be grateful for that..

However, do be critical. As we said, not everyone can do this and the position can easily dislocate shoulder joints or even break bones. So, unless your slave is able to handle this position, do not buy one. Try using rope first to ascertain if really can do what you want.

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If you’re anything like me then you have wondered about what Mistress Irony was like when she was younger. Was she always such a domineering woman? Was she ever submissive? Was she always into BDSM? Wasteland.com provided us with the answer to these questions by having Mistress Irony show us herself what her university life was like. She recreated a couple of stories that had actually happened during her school days to show us that she was never a pushover and has always been just as demanding in her expectations of other people as she is now!

Watch her bind and torture a fellow sorority sister simply because she’s annoyed at her for disturbing her during her study hours. Poor Ava had no idea what was coming for her when she decided to try and befriend her quiet and cool mannered collegue. She’s utterly perplexed when she finds herself tied up, abused and forced to orgasm by her new ‘friend’.  And then we have peverse Johnny who wandered into the sorority house with the purpose of stealing some of the girls’s panties! He learns his lesson pretty fast as Mistress Irony femdoms him and teaches him some manners! Go ahead just click on one of the pictures above to check out the free BDSM movie gallery and see what Irony was really like back when she was just a young student!

Goddess Starla and her loser husband from Femdombride.com are a couple who are completely devoted to living a 24/7 alternative bdsm lifestyle. Much to Randy’s dismay he’s always the one being abused and punished especially in the begining when he wasn’t very well trained. Now however, he’s almost the perfect slave and so sometimes, Starla needs to make up games that she knows Randy will lose at just so that she can validate punishing him. Here however, Goddess Starla just got a new vintage gask mask that she had ordered online. She was so excited about it that she decided to try it out right away on poor Randy. Thinking that the gas mask alone was kind of boring, Starla proceeded to bring out the candles for some wax torture. She got so into this session that she then got out the leather restraints, ball gag and the restrictive collar! What she does to Randay with all these things is up to you to find out!

Starla is such a gorgeous Goddess. I have to wonder if Randy realizes how lucky he is to have such a smart and fun loving wife for a Mistress! The way Randy tries his best to take the abuse that she dishes out tells me that he probably does realize how pathetically unworthy he is of her. She is always coming up with new ways to keep their BDSM relationship spicy and most importantly to keep Randy on his toes. Randy suffers a lot at the hands of his sexy Femdom bride. His punishments are sometimes extremely severe but he always earns them. I know that if I had to take the punishments and abuse that he does, I would be grateful that they are given to me by such a wonderful and talented Goddess!

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Poor Randy is the cuckolded husband of his  beautiful and talented  femdombride, Goddess Starla. In this little preview Starla invited her friend Mistress Irony to join in on some fun by first domming both Randy and starla. Once she is suficiently satisfied Mistress Irony ‘promotes’ Starla so that they can both dominate Randy in some forced boot worship. The two dominatrixes are far from easy on Randy as they chatter, relentlessly humiliating him, as he sucks on both of their boots and feet.  If you think being punished by one dom is tough, just imagine the pain that Randy goes through as he is dominated by these two sadistic vixens!

Beautiful Mistress Alyssah Simone dominates  her slave, Trisha Uptown, in ways that will leave viewers with a hunger. Pleasing one’s Mistress is every slave’s greatest goal in their low and unworthy life and Trisha Uptown does just that even if it means holding a dildo in her mouth so that her latex clad Mistress can use her face as a living fucking machine!  Though humiliated and tortured, Trisha is quick to do whatsoever her Mistress asks of her. Check out Wasteland for the whole experience of this great lesbian domination duo!

Wasteland regular Mistress Irony is a true sadist to the core. She doesn’t let a slave’s tears of agony sway her in the least. She truly enjoys watching other people suffer, and in this case she makes slave Ava suffer dearly. She has no interest in pleasing her slaves…she aims only to please herself. If the slave enjoys some of her torments, well the better for them!

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The Male Genitals
There is a widely spread legend that not only the penis erects, but that the male testicles (balls) will become heavier as they “fill” with semen. That is not true, at least not in the literal sense of the word. However, to the man himself it often indeed feels like that. That is a result of the effects of skin stretching. Skin covers all parts of the male genitals. The more this skin is stretched the more sensitive it becomes, as nerve endings are forced closer to the surface; thus the skin is more sensitive on an erect penis than on a flaccid one. The skin of the scrotal sac is thicker and is capable of great stretching and becomes even more sensitive when stretched. That is when the man becomes aware of the weight of his balls, hence they suddenly feel heavier. The skin of the cockhead, or glans, is very thin, tightly attached to the underlying tissues, and is extremely sensitive. For play it should not even be thought of as skin but as an integral part of the cockhead. It is important to be aware of the differences in sensitivity between a flaccid and an erect penis. Almost every action during active play – and of course the “things” happening in the mind – will cause the penis to swell and become increasingly sensitive. Hence what may be not painful in the beginning may become very painful (or intense) as play progresses. hence, when it comes to CBT, the trick is to downgrade your impulses instead of upgrading. The penis will “upgrade” whatever it is you are doing all by itself. The experienced FemDom will be looking for exactly that – let the penis (and the mind) do the work for you.

The penis consists of four components: First, the skin. Second is a pair of spongy tissue reservoirs on either side, called the corpora cavernosa. These run the length of the penis, beginning under the pubic bone well inside the body, and extending to the base of the glans. These are the main hydraulic system of the penis and are the organs that cause the penis to swell. When empty the penis is soft and flaccid. When filled with blood, they cause the cock to grow longer and more rigid. What feels as muscle tissue on the sides in fact are these two swelling organs. Holding the penis firmly (and a lot of other techniques we will come to talk about) will almost automatically cause a swelling reflex.

The third important component is the cockhead, or glans. This is the tip of the penis and consists primarily of spongy tissue, the corpus spongiosum, which is also erectile. The surface of the glans is covered with very thin, very sensitive skin. The ridge at the base of the glans is the corona, and it is the most sensitive part of the cockhead in most men. At the tip of the glans is the urinary meatus, the opening from the urethra.

The urethra is the fourth component of the penis. It is the duct that empties both urine and semen to the exterior. It runs along the underside of the shaft, surrounded by a tube of the same corpus spongiosum as in the glans.

The main contents of the scrotal sac are the testicles. These are a pair if bean shaped capsules of glandular tissue. The outer covering of each testis is a very tough fibrous capsule. The interior is a soft glandular material in which sperm are produced. They are very well equipped with pressure sensing nerves – nerves which interpret pressure on the balls, any squeezing or pressing or striking, as extreme pain. If you feel each testicle carefully you will be able to detect a much softer, fleshy ridge along one side of each ball and extending up to form a lump on the top of each testicle. This is the epididymis and consists of the tubules that drain the sperm from the testicle. Each testicle hangs at the end of a spermatic cord that attaches to the epididymis at the top of each testicle. The spermatic cord is largely dense, elastic connective tissue that draws the testes up close to the body as a response to cold or fear and suspends them well away from the body when warm (because normal human body temperature is high enough to kill developing sperm.)

The scrotum sac – or actually the testicles – are extremely sensitive and should be handled with care. There is a lot you can do with them, provided it is done skillfully and carefully. An important thing to remember is that men – after having had a vasectomy – may have been left with tiny – very sensitive – internal scars. Squeezing these will cause acute nausea with some men and is extremely painful. It is a good idea to inform yourself about that to avoid unintentional discomfort and an abrupt end of the fun. You will find these scars on either side of the scrotum. Since they are internal you can not see them but you can usually feel them as very tiny little “pinheads”.

Ok, so much for the biology lesson, let’s concentrate on some fun….

The Cockring
If there is one fun (and cheap) toy you should get yourself, it is a cockring. A cockring is placed at the scrotum base, strapping both penis and scrotum bag. There all sorts of them: leather, steel, latex, plastic clip on ones, but a plain and simple soft piece of rope will do as well. There is little harm you can do here and a tight cockring will not harm anything and can be worn for many hours, provided it is comfortable to wear of course. What a cockring will do is that it prolongs the male erection considerbaly (in duration that is, not in length of the penis) and it will hold back the ejaculation. That increases the fun for both and reduces the risk of an early ejaculation. Hence it is more fun for both and especially for the FemDom looking for her own pleasure.

The cockring also opens up all sorts of other fun, like attaching a piece of rope or chain to it and leading your partner around by it (no doubt he will follow instantly with very little or no hesitation, or tie his penis to a ring or post, which will leave him pretty much helpless, with a long-lasting erection and no possibility to relief himself.

Your Nails
Another real fun item every FemDom has readily available are her nails. If you want his full and undivided attention, carefully plant your nails just under the corona an gently pull. You can be sure he’ll go anywhere you want him to go. The same will happen wen you dig your nails in the back of the scrotum sac.

Raking your nails over the sides of the erect penis or the sac will also produce often very intense responses and of course your teeth will produce exactly the same effect.

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